Activities to make Valentine’s Day intimate for your relationship

Across the world, Valentine’s Day is recognized as the day of love, both for yourself and to share with others. The day was named after St. Valentine, a Christian martyr who lived during the peak of the Ancient Roman Empire. The holiday follows both Ancient Roman and Christian traditions, which include expressing your affection to your partner. Often, people do this by treating their partners to dates and buying gifts; however, these acts are common and shared by society as a whole. The best way to make Valentine’s Day memorable and genuine is to personalize it for your relationship specifically, making for a thoughtful and unique experience.

Instead of focusing on materialistic gifts, planning an event that allows for shared experiences with your partner is certain to make the day more intimate. It could be something as simple as a walk, a trip to a nearby location you both enjoy or attending a performance together featuring a favorite celebrity. Sometimes you do not have to go all out! Simply taking time to make someone’s favorite food shows consideration and a willingness to go out of your way to please them. Whether it goes right or wrong, it’s the thought that counts. On the topic of cooking, getting together in the kitchen to create a shared meal fosters teamwork, laughter, and intimate connection. You’re bound to make memories and come together.

Although cliche, going back to the basics never hurts. Writing a love letter for your partner reminiscing about the journey you’ve taken together, especially if you’re not known for expressing your feelings. You can stash the letter in their backpack or an envelope on their desk. Yes, it’s a little cheesy, but sometimes it’s fun to go back to the crush stage!

Speaking of going back to the basics, sitting at home and watching movies you both enjoy is perfectly fine, too! Remember, the best Valentine’s Day is the one that emphasizes your unique connection. It does not have to others, as long as it highlights and creates special moments between you both!